by Melody Wilding
Have you ever been on the receiving end of vague feedback? Maybe your manager has said that “you need to be more strategic.” Or perhaps they’ve mentioned that they want to see you “deepen your knowledge of the business” or that they wish your direct report was more of a “team player.” On the one hand, you may appreciate hearing their take, but on the other hand, you might feel frustrated that their guidance isn’t actionable or clear. Without specifics or concrete examples, you’re left guessing what success looks like and at a loss for exactly what to change.
This happened to Maya, Managing Editor at a media company, who was trying to parse through her latest performance review. During the session, her boss had said, “Everything seems to be on track, but keep pushing for innovation.” On the surface, this sounded somewhat encouraging, but as someone responsible for shaping coverage and developing talent, Maya needed more specifics. Was she driving the right long-term priorities? Were there unspoken concerns she should be addressing?
The higher you advance, the more common this kind of ambiguity becomes. The executives, board members, or clients you report to are often busy, and the feedback they give tends to focus on softer, more subjective qualities. Things like “acting as a thought partner,” “motivating through vision,” and “driving alignment” are often hard to define and even harder to measure. In an ideal world, feedback on these behaviors would be delivered with precision and in a way that’s immediately useful. But the leaders you work closely with, like all of us, are imperfect humans operating in imperfect conditions. Your boss may be overwhelmed, an abstract thinker who struggles getting down to the nitty-gritty details, or someone who simply never received training.
Nevertheless, you can’t afford to let vague feedback slide, because the impact doesn’t stop with you. The lack of clarity trickles down to affect your team’s priorities, slows decision-making, and creates confusion across the organization. Translating vague input into actionable insight is a skill. Here’s how to get the direction you need from your manager. (more…)